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The cursor stops on the slide
You’re in design review, looking at a diagram that makes sense in pieces but not as a whole. Someone asks about a tradeoff, and the thought lands fast: If I say “I don't know” in design review, I'm done. Your face stays still, but your attention leaves the room and starts scanning for a safer answer than the honest one.
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You treat one gap like a verdict
Inside, the moment isn’t just about not knowing. It feels like proof that you were supposed to have stitched every branch together before anyone saw the deck. So you nod, hedge, or talk around the missing part, then spend the rest of the meeting protecting that gap instead of naming it. Afterward, you carry the unanswered question alone and make it heavier than it was.
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A clean answer is not the same as a final answer
The more accurate read is simpler: design review is where unclear edges get found, not where only finished certainty is allowed. You do not need a grand explanation to be honest. You need a small, usable sentence that keeps the work moving. Put the missing point on paper privately, label what you actually know, and mark what still needs checking.