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The Science of Perfectionism: Why High Standards Are Not the Problem
'I just have high standards' is the most common reframe of perfectionism — and the one that research most clearly challenges. Since 1991, when Hewitt and Flett proposed that perfectionism has a socially prescribed dimension (believing others demand flawlessness from you, not just demanding it of yourself), studies have steadily mapped how the trait mediates depression, anxiety, and the procrastination loop where not starting is safer than risking an imperfect result. Socially prescribed perfectionism has risen roughly 33% from 1989 to 2016 — making it one of the few psychological traits that got measurably worse across a generation. None of that is a verdict about character. It is a map of mechanisms.