“I just need to push through this stretch and then I'll recover.” Hobfoll's Conservation of Resources theory shows the opposite: when energy is depleted faster than it's replenished, the gap widens with every extra push. Working through exhaustion is not grit — it's the accelerant.
The Empty Tank
- I just need to push through and then I'll rest
- I'll rest when this project is finished
- I'm tired but I'm fine — everyone's tired
- Taking a real break feels irresponsible right now
- I'll sleep properly once things calm down
- I keep cancelling plans because I'm too drained to show up
- One more coffee and I can keep going