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“Every incident goes in the case file: they ALWAYS, they NEVER.” Gottman's research is blunt — once complaints become character verdicts, the relationship is arguing with contempt, the single strongest predictor of divorce.
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The contempt cascade describes how the Four Horsemen typically appear in sequence: criticism (attacking character, not behavior) invites defensiveness; repeated defensiveness escal…
The Four Horsemen pattern is Gottman's framework for four specific communication behaviors — criticism (attacking partner's character), contempt (expressing moral superiority), def…
Negative sentiment override (NSO) is a state in which a partner's accumulated negative view of the relationship causes them to interpret even neutral or positive behaviors as negat…
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