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“Who am I to overrule someone with 15 years here?”
Try this response:
“Their years here explain the past. They don’t decide the next step.”SEE THE PRACTICE
Build a response for this thought—and one move to prove it.
THE THOUGHT
“Who am I to overrule someone with 15 years here?”
YOUR RECORDED RESPONSE
“Their years here explain the past. They don’t decide the next step.”
ONE PRIVATE MOVE
Take a blank note card or sticky note and write one sentence that starts with “Next step:” or “Priority:”. Put it face down on your desk for two minutes, then read it once aloud to yourself.
The Tenure Trump Card
- The badge on the wallYou’re at the whiteboard, trying to assign the next steps, and you can already feel the objection before it lands. Someone with fifteen years here knows the process, the shortcuts, the people, the history. Then the thought arrives cleanly: Who am I to overrule someone with 15 years here? So you soften your wording, add context you don’t need, and leave the direction half-buried.
- Past knowledge is not a vetoThe honest answer is that their history is real, and it still doesn’t decide what happens next. Fifteen years here explains what they know about how things used to work. It does not make every old habit the best move now. You are not erasing their experience by naming the next step. You are doing the part that belongs to the role you hold.
Choose the next instruction first
So you decide before the moment gets crowded by apologies: tenure can inform the plan, but it does not cancel it. You take a blank note card and write one direct instruction or priority in plain language, without softening it with a preface. If you need to speak later, you’ll already have the words that keep respect and direction in the same sentence.
TRACE · 01/04
How this script runs you
- You begin directions with extra explanation, as if tenure needs to be talked down before you can speak.
- A mention of someone’s years here makes you feel like your instruction has to earn permission.
- You rehearse justifications for a simple decision because their history seems to outrank your role.
SOURCE_LOCATED · 02/04
The hidden rule underneath
The Age Veto
The private rule underneath this thought is: longer tenure automatically deserves the last word, so your direction has to be carefully minimized, heavily explained, or quietly withdrawn unless you can prove you’re entitled to lead.
FORGING_REPLACEMENT · 03/04
Replacement lines (record these)
- Their years here explain the past. They don’t decide the next step.
- I can respect their experience and still name the direction.
- I’m responsible for what happens next, even if they know the history better.
Generated per person in the app — these are the flavor, not your script. Yours is built from your exact words.
INSTALL · 04/04
The protocol, on one card
When I think
“Who am I to overrule someone with 15 years here?”
I say
“Their years here explain the past. They don’t decide the next step.”
Then I do one thing
Take a blank note card or sticky note and write one sentence that starts with “Next step:” or “Priority:”. Put it face down on your desk for two minutes, then read it once aloud to yourself.
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Wipe this thought4 minutes. Your voice. Free.
The wipe protocol
- Write the thought exactly as it plays: "Who am I to overrule someone with 15 years here?". Word for word — the wipe targets the sentence, not the vibe.
- Trace the rule and the avoided action. What does this thought conveniently excuse you from doing?
- Record the replacement lines below in your own voice. Speak like you mean it — no recording, no install.
- Run the loop: play it every morning and night, log one proof action a day for 7 days.
Straight answers
Does this mean I should ignore someone’s long experience?
No. The point is not to dismiss tenure, institutional memory, or practical know-how. It is to stop treating them as a veto over your role. Experience can inform the decision without replacing it.
What if they really do know more about the process than I do?
That can be true and still not settle the question of direction. Their knowledge helps you make a better call about the past and the present setup. It does not automatically answer who sets the next priority.
Why does this feel so awkward if I’m technically in charge?
Because your authority is happening across a shared history, not in a blank room. The awkwardness comes from leading people who remember you in a different place. That does not make the role false; it just makes the transition visible.
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The research behind this script
- The First 90 Days — Watkins, M., Harvard Business Review Press, 2003
- The Extraordinary Leader — Zenger & Folkman, McGraw-Hill, 2020