“Enough is whatever the people around me have, plus a little.” The economics is blunt: hold your own income constant and richer neighbors alone lower reported happiness. The index resets every time anyone nearby buys anything — so by design, you can never clear it.
The Peer Index
- Everyone my age owns a home already
- Their vacation photos are a ranking, and I'm losing
- New money in my feed means I've fallen behind
- LinkedIn promotions are a scoreboard I'm losing
- The alumni newsletter keeps a score I never asked for
- My friend's wedding registry tells me where I rank
- The school pickup line is a report card on me