“Everyone can see exactly how nervous I am.” Gilovich's spotlight-effect studies found people overestimate how much others notice them by roughly double — and Savitsky & Gilovich showed audiences detect far less nervousness than speakers assume. The shake is loud on the inside and near-silent from the third row.
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“They're all evaluating me, and the verdict is pending.” Clark & Wells mapped the mechanism: attention flips inward onto a distorted self-image, and safety behaviors — rehearsing every line, gripping the glass, going quiet — steal the credit whenever the night goes fine, so the fear never gets to expire.
The Imaginary Jury
“Replaying it is how I make sure it never happens again.” Clark & Wells named this post-event rumination: because attention ran inward during the event, the replay reruns the feelings, not the facts — so every review scores the night worse, and the dread of the next room compounds for days.