QUIET
Quiet signal
“I'll just check one notification” appears, but it rarely gets the final say. Keep this line available for higher-pressure moments: “The banner already told me what I need to know. I don't have to open anything.”
SCRIPT CHECK · 60 SECONDS
Five quick questions show how often it appears, how believable it feels, and what it makes you avoid. You’ll get one private next step.
This is not a diagnosis and there is no pass or fail. It measures the current frequency, credibility, and behavioral cost of “I'll just check one notification”, including the private rule underneath it: If a notification appears, it must be resolved immediately or it will pile up unanswered, so any preview earns an instant tap regardless of what you were already doing.
QUIET
“I'll just check one notification” appears, but it rarely gets the final say. Keep this line available for higher-pressure moments: “The banner already told me what I need to know. I don't have to open anything.”
PRESENT
“I'll just check one notification” wins some small decisions before you catch it. Your useful interruption is: “One check is never one check. I can let this one stay unread.”
ACTIVE
“I'll just check one notification” is shaping action often enough to deserve a deliberate counterexample. Start privately and concretely: Next time a banner appears while you're mid-task, read only the preview line, set the phone face-down without unlocking it, and time how long the urge to check lasts.
DOMINANT
Right now, “I'll just check one notification” is steering many of the moments you measured. That is a pattern reading, not a diagnosis or character verdict. Begin with one reversible receipt: Next time a banner appears while you're mid-task, read only the preview line, set the phone face-down without unlocking it, and time how long the urge to check lasts.