QUIET
Quiet signal
“When things get good, I start planning how it will all end” appears, but it rarely gets the final say. Keep this line available for higher-pressure moments: “This good moment does not need a disaster attached to it.”
SCRIPT CHECK · 60 SECONDS
“When things get good, I start planning how it will all end”
See what this thought is changing.
Five quick questions show how often it appears, how believable it feels, and what it makes you avoid. You’ll get one private next step.
What this self-check measures
This is not a diagnosis and there is no pass or fail. It measures the current frequency, credibility, and behavioral cost of “When things get good, I start planning how it will all end”, including the private rule underneath it: The private rule is: if things are going well, I should not trust them to stay that way, so I need an exit story ready before I let myself relax. Safety is measured by how quickly I can leave, not by whether I am actually okay here.
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PRESENT
Present in the background
“When things get good, I start planning how it will all end” wins some small decisions before you catch it. Your useful interruption is: “I can notice the exits without spending the whole night in them.”
ACTIVE
Active pattern
“When things get good, I start planning how it will all end” is shaping action often enough to deserve a deliberate counterexample. Start privately and concretely: For five minutes, sit in one room and deliberately leave your keys, shoes, and bag exactly where they are. Name three ordinary details you can see, then stop checking the door or planning a reason to go.
DOMINANT
Getting the final word
Right now, “When things get good, I start planning how it will all end” is steering many of the moments you measured. That is a pattern reading, not a diagnosis or character verdict. Begin with one reversible receipt: For five minutes, sit in one room and deliberately leave your keys, shoes, and bag exactly where they are. Name three ordinary details you can see, then stop checking the door or planning a reason to go.